You should also check out estate jewelry. I was adamant about not having "new" diamonds for our wedding, for various reasons but the ethics of the diamond industry among them as well as not thinking it wise to start our life together in debt for a anachronistic dowry-type symbol on my finger, but we lucked out and used some old family rings from the 'teens and '20s--I always get comments on how beautiful and unique they are.<br><br>
I told my DH that if he hadn't been given those rings by his family, they are exactly like what I would have picked out myself. Plus, they are usually more affordable (not always) than newer rings. There is a local family jeweler in town who specializes in this sort of thing, and you can also find places online like this:<br><a href="http://www.estatediamondjewelry.com/item.cfm?int_item_id=27&cat_id=3" target="_blank">http://www.estatediamondjewelry.com/...id=27&cat_id=3</a><br><br><a href="http://www.nelsonrarities.com/dir01-12/gallery.html" target="_blank">http://www.nelsonrarities.com/dir01-12/gallery.html</a><br><br>
omg, I am having waaaaaay too much fun looking at these rings<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile">