DS1- "early" labor started hard and fast, contractions 2-5 minutes apart with intense back labor. We had him at the hospital, and what could have been a fast birth had I known better and trusted my body turned into a 20 hour long ordeal.<br><br>
DS2- early labor 8-10 minutes apart, mostly gentle contractions. Transition was very fast and the whole thing was about 8 hours. During pushing, I can't honestly remember how my contractions were going-I wasn't paying attention LOL!<br><br>
DD- Two days of start-and-stop labor, contractions 4-5 minutes apart for a few hours, then they would die out. For some reason they would always start up at night, so by the time real labor started I'd had zero sleep. As the contractions got closer together, I started pushing instinctively. Unfortunately they died out and after an hour of pushing all I'd done was make myself swell up. My midwife told me to rest, so I did. About 30 minutes later, my labor returned with violent, "pitocin-like" force ( I had Pit with my first, and they felt just like that) Midwife tried to have me push with the contractions but they were non stop. I just pushed and pushed and never stopped. Finally after 14 hours my daughter was born on our bedroom floor.<br><br>
You can try to use your contractions to push more "effectively", but I was never able to figure out how to do it. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngtongue.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Stick Out Tongue"> I guess I'm a bad pusher LOL!