I went to the midwife today, and she tryed to find the heart beat with 3 different dopplers and was unable to. I am approx 11 weeks, so it could be that the baby is still too small, but it is still very stressful. She said we could wait a week and try again or go for an u/s tomorrow, so I chose the u/s there is no way I could be in limbo an enitre week. I have also been having weird lower abdominal pain, but no spotting or anything, so that kind of makes me feel like something isn't quite right anyway. I am trying to stay calm and let myself believe that whatever happens is for the best, but the worry is starting to get to me. So, anyway, please keep us in your thoughts.