[Norasmomma]

Alright I took a test yesterday and got a BFN, AF should have started today and is MIA. Now that wouldn't be that strange, but my cervix are high-like I can't even reach them high. I know this isn't a for sure sign of pregnancy, but normally they are easily withing reach, I also have had like zero cm, not creamy-just really nothing, just moisture. I also am sure I O'd on the 20th.

FWIW-I didn't test with DD until about 17 dpo and got a faint pos with her. I *feel* like I am pg, and now my cervix are so freaking high. Any advice?

I'm also not taking another test until AF is at least 4 days late(like last time). TIA

 

[anne1140]

I was always told that you can't rely on cervix position to tell you if you are pregnant or not.

I do hope that this is it for you, though!

 

[Norasmomma]

Well when I was pg with my DD they were way high and in the back, so they were nearly impossible to reach, even when getting an exam. Usually around this time of my cycle they would be low and open and they aren't. It's too weird.

 

[MyZoeJane]

FYI, referring to your cervix as "they" is inaccurate. You have only one cervix so it's protocol to refer to the cervix as "it" and not "they."

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(Stepping out of my English teacher body and back into my other self....)

That said, I think we're in a very similar boat! I am 12 dpo and my cervix is high and soft, though I keep getting a BFN! I had a temp dip this morning, but my temp is back up this evening (I had been resting for a few hours watching a long movie so I took it. I know it's not accurate if it's not the same time, but still...)

Have you had a temperature dip in the past day or two? I am thinking that since my AF did not show up on Sunday when she was expected, and my temp dropped below my coverline this morning, maybe I am still testing negative because I had a late implantation? I've been consistently crampy for a few days now and I don't normally get AF crampiness like this. I mean, it's still within the realm of possibility that implantation can occur at 11dpo or 12dpo, right?

So maybe you're in the same boat and you keep getting a BFN because you implanted later than the norm and thus haven't built up the hCG for the test to see it yet??