and have you seen the petition and what people's comments are upon signing it? i had to stop reading, makes me want to puke. I would divorce him stat. LOO-ser!
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This one made me want to 
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| All I know is that children need to sleep in their own beds at night. It is very unhealthy for a child to sleep with his/her parents. Even if the child cries at night for a week straight they need to be in their own bed!!! I could go on forever about this but I dont have the time. |
how about THIS one "I am a mother of a 28 year old young man. I don't believe my son would be where he is right now, if I would have let him sleep with my husband and myself at 2 yrs of age. I know your wife loves them dearly, but in the long run, she is going to ruin them as adults. Love them always, but remember you have a husband who loves YOU also. "
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i'm not a co-sleeper (we're all personal space freaks
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He's having a big, grown-up TANTRUM, is what he's doing. He can't get his own way, so he's going to have a public tantrum and attract a whole lot of attention, and hope to embarass his wife into doing what he wants her to do.
My toddler is a master hand at this strategy. I find that ignoring it works really well.
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My toddler is a master hand at this strategy. I find that ignoring it works really well.
If her dh is getting sex and still complaining about this, he's an even bigger jerk than I thought. I'm 8 months pp with baby number three, and sex is still an issue...not because of the family bed, but because of the pain
The comments on his blog actually made me even madder than his strike does. The usual "you'll never get them out of the bed", "they're being ruined", "how can children become independent" (good question, as a 3-month-old is certainly dependent on us for everything), etc., etc., etc. One woman asked if anybody knows how many children are killed by a parent rolling over on them...no mention of SIDS, though.
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The comments on his blog actually made me even madder than his strike does. The usual "you'll never get them out of the bed", "they're being ruined", "how can children become independent" (good question, as a 3-month-old is certainly dependent on us for everything), etc., etc., etc. One woman asked if anybody knows how many children are killed by a parent rolling over on them...no mention of SIDS, though.
Oh see this is discussed here too. You want some different opinions? Check out Parents as Partners forum!
PS. I still say that what this guy is doing is trying to get out of his responsibilities by blaming anybody and anything - cosleeping, pacifiers, mess in the bedroom (he calls it a mess? He definately should come over to my house, LOL)
PPS. For those bloggers, and I posted it there too - my 18yo does NOT still sleep with me
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For quite a few years actually...
PS. I still say that what this guy is doing is trying to get out of his responsibilities by blaming anybody and anything - cosleeping, pacifiers, mess in the bedroom (he calls it a mess? He definately should come over to my house, LOL)
PPS. For those bloggers, and I posted it there too - my 18yo does NOT still sleep with me
If he were my husband I'd move the rest of his stuff up to the roof.....then the kids and I could sleep in peace.
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I've decided the smartest thing that wife could do would be to change the locks while he is up on the gd roof.
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GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR these people are SO stupid!!!! One woman touting that she's proud that she didn't "baby her daughter". Um...hello. You are supposed to BABY a BABY you idiot!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.
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Here's what I wrote to him:
Let me preface this by saying that most of the comments on here are so sad.
Your wife is right on and you are being selfish! You cannot spoil a 2 month old baby for goodness sakes! Co sleeping is completely normal and natural! Your wife is following her instincts. GOOD FOR HER! Your children will grow out of the need for it..why not baby them while they are STILL BABIES? I'm now co sleeping with my third baby. My first 2 are ages 5 and 3 and they are now happily sleeping in their own rooms but they are more than welcome to sleep in our room if they want. Someone posted that your wife needs "help" or they see a divorce in your future. If anyone needs help it is you. You'd think that a father would want to love and nurture his children....not try to compete with them. Shame on you! Grow up!
~ A happy co-sleeping mama of 3 (and thank goodness my husband isn't a selfish nitwit like you).
Here's what I wrote to him:
Let me preface this by saying that most of the comments on here are so sad.
Your wife is right on and you are being selfish! You cannot spoil a 2 month old baby for goodness sakes! Co sleeping is completely normal and natural! Your wife is following her instincts. GOOD FOR HER! Your children will grow out of the need for it..why not baby them while they are STILL BABIES? I'm now co sleeping with my third baby. My first 2 are ages 5 and 3 and they are now happily sleeping in their own rooms but they are more than welcome to sleep in our room if they want. Someone posted that your wife needs "help" or they see a divorce in your future. If anyone needs help it is you. You'd think that a father would want to love and nurture his children....not try to compete with them. Shame on you! Grow up!
~ A happy co-sleeping mama of 3 (and thank goodness my husband isn't a selfish nitwit like you).
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