Wanted to know if anyone does this? And how does it work for you? As I mentioned in a previous post, my STBX wants 50/50 custody but I'm concerned that he isn't consistent enough to handle all the responsibilities of school work and I think I'd like the kids to have more consistency during the school week with their own bed ect... Friends have cautioned me against giving away every weekend to the EX but I tend to work my second job on weekends anyway and I thought that maybe if I was scheduled to have at least one weekend a month, that would be good since I will have the kids most of the week. STBX and I get along well enough that if one of us wanted to switch weekends because of events or whatever it would work out. I would also be willing to give up one night a week, maybe on Wed since STBX says that he can't go 6-7 days without seeing the kids.