Hi Everyone. My husband and I unfortunately are having major marital problems. There are many problems we have, which I won't go into for time sake, but one issue that we disagree often on is his involvement with our daughter. When she was a baby, I thought he would be doting over her...he wasn't. Friends told me "wait until she is more interactive!" Well, she is now 13 months old and he still is not very involved. He works nights in the medical field, so with his schedule he does not get to spend much time with her (or I for that matter) as it is. His schedule changes weekly, but he often works weekends, so his "weekends" may fall during the week. During his days off, he takes her to our daycare at least 95% of the time. It really kills me because I am at work and wishing I could be with her. He could be with her but he chooses to take her to daycare instead of spending time with her. When I bring up that this bothers me he gets angry and just says that we pay for daycare either way and that he is going to take time for himself. Well, when is his time with our daughter? Seems like never. Then he gets frustrated when she never wants to go to him & always comes to me. Does anyone else have this problem or any advice? It just really saddens me how little time he wants to spend with our daughter. The situation has gotten pretty bad, so any advice, opinions, or stories that may help would be greatly appreciated!