This is so frustrating!! We knew she was allergic to dairy from birth, even through my milk. So when she weaned herself from nursing at 13 months due to new preg, she drank soy like a champ. than she got sick a few months later and became totally intolerant of soy. so some moms on here recommended rice milk, which she promptly threw up even faster than the soy. Is it truly ok for a 21 month old toddler to have no milk of any kind for months on end?? This reallly concerns me alot, but i know that all cultures don't beleive milk is for older people. Some think milk is just for babies, and let them nurse for several years. I am about to have #2 and have my double electric pump all ready to go. Surely my dd will be able to tolerate MY milk????? Does anyone have any experience with this?? The only other think I've seen is something like oat milk, which was really more of a beverage than anything. Please any help would be great!!