Scene - 3 pm my 8yo DD is yelling at me about something silly. My toast that you gave me for breakfast had too much butter on it. Or something equally silly. I tell her that tomorrow we will put less on then. She complains over and over again until I finally send her to her room because she won't stop complaining. Only she won't go to go to her room. No she wants to stand beside me and yell at me the same thing over and over and over again. Time to cool down? No she won't let that happen. She just follows me getting louder and louder until finally I have had enough. I pick her up and take her to her room. But she won't stay there. She follows me again. Yelling at me and following me until I have just had enough. Why can't she see that I am going to lose it? She keep at it until she gets spanked. Why does she do it and what do you think would work to get her to stop? Any help would be greatly appreciated.