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i miss my dh. his work is 3 hours away, so in a 12 day cycle, he is gone 7 of those days. when he is home he has his activities that he enjoys, golfing, fishing, hunting, the gym etc. it does take up alot of time.
i have 4 kids -13, 9, 6, and 3. i have my own interests and am usually pretty good about not getting needy for my dh. if i am not spending time with the kids, i am also responsible for all the house and yard work, so it generally keeps me busy. i also homeschool and take the kids to their activities. i am also doing some coursework of my own. i make sure to take time everyday to do some cardio or go to the gym by myself.
any tips or ideas on how to cope with this? i feel like i am needing to do something about it. usually i am pretty good with it but this time having him back has been hard for me where he is so busy. i feel terrible about this. he really is a great husband and i love him alot.
i have 4 kids -13, 9, 6, and 3. i have my own interests and am usually pretty good about not getting needy for my dh. if i am not spending time with the kids, i am also responsible for all the house and yard work, so it generally keeps me busy. i also homeschool and take the kids to their activities. i am also doing some coursework of my own. i make sure to take time everyday to do some cardio or go to the gym by myself.
any tips or ideas on how to cope with this? i feel like i am needing to do something about it. usually i am pretty good with it but this time having him back has been hard for me where he is so busy. i feel terrible about this. he really is a great husband and i love him alot.