If this is a Dutch thing, it explains a lot about my father's family.
Dad was Dutch and oh dear the way they talked to each other. I grew to dislike my grandmother intensely because of it.
When my dad quit drinking, his mom's response was: "I wish he'd quit smoking instead."
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Dad was Dutch and oh dear the way they talked to each other. I grew to dislike my grandmother intensely because of it.
When my dad quit drinking, his mom's response was: "I wish he'd quit smoking instead."
