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We are having the anatomy scan at 34 weeks. I don't want to know the sex until birth but DH really really wants to know. He's suggested the u/s tech tell him and not me and swears he can keep it secret from me.<br><br>
Anyone done this with their DH?
 

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i know my DH could and would keep a secret like that from me, but i would try so hard and more then likely get made if he did not tell me.<br><br>
i think its a great way to get around you situation, but it would not work for me and would drive me crazy!
 

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I agree. I know my husband could keep the secret, but with him knowing, I think I would need to know. It would be on my mind all the time. Maybe it wouldn't be the same for you? <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/shrug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="shrug">
 

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I dont know...I know that if he knew as early as 20 weeks then it would kill me and I would try anything to get it out of him. But he'll only know at 34 weeks, so I'm hoping I wont beg to know. He swears he wont tell me.<br><br>
Hopefully by then everything will be too squished in there for the technician to get a good look <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol">
 

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Melly, I think it is adorable that he is so excited about the baby. It's cute that the suspense is killing him, right?
 

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It is pretty cute <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="love"> But I think he's afraid that if it's a girl, he'll react disappointed at birth an p*** me off!! He really wants a boy....I've told him that once he actually witnesses his child being born this time and how amazing it is, he wont care what the sex is. I dont think he believes me <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol">
 
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