I try to make sure dd has a bath every other day and I scrub her good during that time. But if she has a poopy and it gets into the folds she will fight me tooth and nail. She's too old for distraction at age 2, so I just tell her that her "chee-tha" is dirty and I have to clean it or it will start to itch. Then I hold her legs down and open with my legs and just do it real fast. I don't think I'm traumatizing her, it's a power struggle with her, but I figure me wiping her quick against her will is better than a yeast infection.