ok someone please help! ds is in so much pain from his diaper rash. i think it might be from soap left in his diapers which we have now taken care of. but he just cries everytime he pees or poops.please help us! i gave him a binkie which i did NOT want to do: . but he wont stop nursing at all because his but hurts. i've tried desitin, arbonne diaper cream, aquaphor, powder, grrrr!