I have a Diva cup I've been using for 4 years now (minus 16 mos. of pregnancy/lactational amenorrhea) and lately it hasn't been working out for me. I know it's in right, it doesn't leak, and I cut the stem all the way off, but it feels too big (TMI). It pokes me and sometimes even pokes out of me a little, even though it is as far back as it can go, over my cervix. It's really uncomfortable and I am about to give up on it and go back to sea sponges (which I used for 2-3 yrs. before I had kids). It's too bad because I really liked my diva cup and it worked fine for so long, but obviously, our bodies change over time and it's just not working now. I hate the mess of sea sponges. I want this to work out. Any ideas or suggestions? As it is I've been sticking to cloth pads for the lighter days of my period and just being uncomfortable for the 2 heaviest days when I NEED my diva cup. I don't want to do that again next month.