My LO is just over two weeks old. I've noticed that sometimes she is okay being swaddled, but more often that not she fights it (grunts and pushes with arms and legs) and usually gets free of the swaddle. During the day I usually just let her fight her way out, and she ends up sleeping with both arms over her head. (She often nurses with her arm over her face, too.) It seems like she just likes her arms free. That said, it is difficult to settle her down. Am I fighting a losing battle trying to swaddle her? Should I use the Swaddleme-type blanket that forces her (with velcro) to stay swaddled? Or should I let her arms go free?