I have not had my 12 month old dd tested and am leaning towards not doing it. Although our doc is "okay" with us not vaxing, he said he would bring it up at every visit and ask if we're ready to do it yet. Sigh. I therefore don't do WBV and am not eager to become his captive audience. So I really don't want to go in for the iron check (or lead test? our house was built in the early 60s, so I'm conflicted about that one). We're going to change insurance plans in January, and I think I'll be able to find a better ped then.
We've been seeing a holistic ped to help dd with her digestive issues (paying out of pocket -- ouch! -- although it's really helping her), and surprisingly, she recommended the iron test (she doesn't act as a primary care physician, so I'd have to take dd to her "normal" doc to get it done). I commented that dd doesn't show any symptoms of anemia, and she said that most of the time there are NO SYMPTOMS. This is coming from a woman who is an MD, in addition to practicing acupuncture, CST, homeopathy, etc. Generally I really respect her opinion, but I'm not too sure about this no symptom thing. When she saw how reluctant I was about getting the test done, she muscle tested dd and said she seems okay, and just recommended giving her red meat whenever we eat it (about once a week). She knows we are not doing fortified cereal and that dd is still bf.