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I was wondering this today. I think I need to work on this, because I run into an awful lot of ff'ing mamas, and when I see that dreaded formula bottle and the mother makes a comment like "oh my, you are BREASTFEEDING? wow, that's brave, don't you fear your breasts will sag?" this totally changes my image of her. I don't know if it's right or wrong. But it just is. I know some people say breastfeeding doesn't necessarily make you a good mother, just as ff'ing doesn't make you a bad one, but in the case of a woman who has no obstacles, no reasons to not bf, all the support in the world, is educated, would you judge her? would you think she's a bad mom?