any sort of final papers after the Judge decided all the stuff? We went to court 3 weeks ago to sort out visitation/child support. I had assumed I would get something in the mail after everything the Judge said was written down- am I wrong? I've talked to my lawyer several times since then but she's never mentioned it (and it never crossed my mind to ask). It would be nice to have something in writting explaining everything (since ass is always challenging ME about what he can and can't do even though the Judge explained it all! Leads me to believe he was high during court too....). TIA!