Okay situation I'm watching a friends 4 month old DS 2 days a week for 4 hours each while she takes a class. Shes paying me $25 a week not much but thats fine its gas money and I'm happy to help. Her sons a really cutie but he has been a bit fussy he is on formula and I think its making him a little "colicky" so I've been carring him some gripe water (as moms request) around in a sling and that really seems to help calm him. I discussed this with her and all seemed fine.... Well I recently got a message on my machine asking that I not wear him so much because hes getting "spoiled" and she can't wear him all day so she doesn't want him used to it. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"> SO how to I respond?