I once read something briefly on this, but didn't really care since my son was an infant at the time. He is now 3, and has been playing with himself for some time, but only recently has begun playing with himself while breastfeeding. I figure it's because he loves his penis, and he has nothing else to do with his hands, but I am in a way bothered by it. I know I shouldn't be, but having had sexual abuse in the family (not me personally) it scares me. I have begun to do patty cakes with him or have him point to other body parts or things, just to keep his hands busy. Am I wrong for being paranoid or weired out by this? Is there anyone who can just relate?!?