i had planned on using a sling or other soft carrier and was super-psyched about it for literally years before i was even pregnant. and i didn't even know it was cool! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"> but i've done it three times now and have been in agony for a day or two afterward every time; right now i'm having trouble walking or sitting my back hurts so bad from 'wearing' her for an hour yesterday. any suggestions? cuz i really want to 'babywear', but i definitely can't do -this-.