[Motherto4]

I was due with my 4th on Dec 4th and misscarried at 10 weeks. I am pregnant again Due in March but it hurts so bad knowing I should be holding my baby and I'm not. Does it get better?

 

[Amydoula]

For me yes. I was a wreck the month before my last due date and I still wasn't pregnant again so that was an issue as well but after I passed the due date I really felt better.

 

[JayJay]

Of course it can

There are those who say "you never recover", but I vehemently disagree with that statement, because I believe you CAN recover. It doesn't mean you forget, just that you can heal and live with a scar and a memory instead of constantly walking around in pain. You don't have to walk around in pain all the time - if you feel there are things you need to tackle, then do that - you can do it. You can feel better. You'll never forget the baby you lost - that's for sure - but you can heal, and that doesn't mean dishonoring your lost baby. I think when people condemn themselves into a box of never healing, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Stick with us - we're a group of women who want to heal and want to lift each other up, and that makes such a difference

*HUGE hugs XXX

 

[Motherto4]

Thanks. I have been doing really well IMO but seeing A LOT of women due now or just having there babys makes it hard that I should be there. I am very excite that in March I will get to hold my new baby. I think that has helped me alot.