Well I have been in a kind of naive fog and ignoring alot of warning signs in my marriage, trying to "save" it, only to the point of having my husband hurt me in front of our kids which led to a huge wake up. I had him arrested, got a restraining order. Now I am piecing together all the crap he had been telling me and waking up. I got an emai from an online dating group addressed to my husband, anyone know about edatingsolutions? So it led me to open up the cookies on our computer and find a ton of porn all accessed during the middle of the night. There is one called adultrevenueservice.com , does anyone know of that one. I am trying to figure out if he was simply looking at porn or actually meeting up with women, either one bothers me but one is way worse obviously. I don't know about porn really at all, I am sheltered when it comes to that. But I know that he has been taking advantage of that. So I want to educate myself. Thanks so much for any help. Also when I look at the list of cookies is there anyway to click on it and go to the actual site he was on. I can't figure out if I can copy and paste or click on it. I want to know exactly what he was looking at but can't figure out how to do that. Not fun research but I am realizing my naivete is being used against me. edited to add he was also looking at adultfriendfinder.com which does look like a sex matching service. Where do I find info to know how to use this. He denies everything, he won't even admit he looks at porn, now I know why, he isn't just looking at porn. I am so livid and feel so foolish.