I can honestly say I don't have one and that's not good! My moms to busy with her BF (getting married next week) to help me, I just dumped my one and only best friend due to some serious issues, the guy I was seeing (single father raising 7 yr old) has been out of town a lot lately working so I cant send dd over there to play for a hour to get as break. I haven't really met any moms locally that I've clicked with so I kinda feel SOL. The last few days have been really though and I really really needed a break and there was no one to help me. What do you do when you get to the breaking point and there is no one around to help? In the last year I think I have gotten 1 - 2 hour break from dd (begged mom to watch her so I could see Shrek 2) and honestly I need that every week! I think I've been sucking as a mom lately because I'm feeling so burned out and stressed. I've tried finding a babysitter but there hard to find and want a ransom, I mean I paid a maid almost that amount! I do get time away from dd at work and stuff but I need ME time. Time where I can relax, soak in the tub, read, be lazy, what ever as long as its for ME.