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<p>Ex just came by. I needed some things that he forgot last time. He's actually just leaving his laptop and external drive for me to take care of on my own time and said he'll probably be by tomorrow to pick it up. It was done quickly, no issues. </p>
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<p>So why do I want to smack him? Oh, yeah. Because he acts normal (sorry, but I will not act like things are normal and just fine, though I won't flip out on you either...but I will not laugh or small talk, period). Because he didn't ask about the baby, not a single word. And because he keeps saying "we." As in, "Well, <em>we</em>'ll just probably pick it up tomorrow when <em>we</em> come back to town tomorrow." We? Who's we? Oh, yes, it's probably his ex...you know, the same girl that tried to come after me and he had to physically restrain her (though, I'll admit, I totally egged her on <img alt="" src="http://files.mothering.com/loveeyes.gif" title="">). I'm not annoyed that there's any sort of "we" (it could be a relationship, it could be just that they're hanging out a lot, frankly, I could care only a tiny bit less)...I'm more annoyed that he says it to try and get to me (which is working, but only because he's TRYING to bother me, if that makes sense lol). Just like how the last day before he "officially" bailed out, the day I confronted him about cheating on me, he told he that he "got rid of her" (the girl he cheated on me with)...then proceeds to tell me how he "might" get back together with the ex. </p>
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<p>Do I really effing care? No, I don't! Frankly, I wouldn't mind you getting back together with her. That's just all the more fuel on my side to keep you from getting any unsupervised visitation (she has a lovely legal history behind her). I'm just so sick and tired of you pulling this BS. Just give me my crap and get out of my life. Period.</p>
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<p>...on the plus side, I got unburned mail this time!!! *insert eyeroll and/or headbang smiley here*</p>
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<p>ETA: It was totally his ex that was with him. My friend (whom I'm staying with) came in and said she saw her and assumed she was the ex...and then made some assumptions based on her appearance that, I must say, were quite accurate. Hahaha.</p>
 
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