What can I do? My DD, age 7, just told me last Friday when her dad picked her up from her gymnastics class, he left before it was over and said he was going to grandmas. He came back an hour later and then took her to his apartment. Later DD heard ex and girlfriend arguing and crying about him smelling like beer and him telling her he had gone to the bar. DD was upset her dad lied to her about going to grandmas. I'm upset he went to the bar and still smelled like beer 2 hours later. He has a big history of drinking and crashing cars. He is currently on probation for assaulting me. He is supposed to visit with her tomorrow. We just got the divorced finalized less than a month ago. I'm so worried he will get in an accident with DD in the car and plus he doesn't even have a booster even thought that'<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/bigeyes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="bigeyes">s the law here now. Any suggestions?