my ex got married in Nov. and i found out accidentaly because his step sons name showed up on my sons dental insurance statement from a visit in February. i know that his step son could only appear on the insurance unless my ex had married and i called the county in which i thought he would have a marriage liscense and *bingo* he did!!! ex has not introduced me to her, and i only heard of the engagement via his lawyer to my lawyer about a week before they got married and then he never said he was getting married in a week. i am just not quite sure how to handle this, i haven't talked to my lawyer yet, but what are my rights conerning this situation? we have a "temporary" custody order which is supposedly going to be turned into a joint custody order this summer. i honestly don't understand how i am supposed to have joint custody with someone of such low moral character. by the way this is his third in 14 years and he is 32. it is such a frusterating situaion. would the judge actually care to hear that he didn't inform me of such an event? i only found out that his girlfriend excisted by accident last november, he tried to hide that from me, but dd spilled the beans. i have never even met her before. what to do???