SBX has a lot of issues taking his parenting time so I am currently trying to be flexible and offered him from 5pm Sunday to 5pm Monday instead of 10am Moinday to 10am Tuesday which is when he is supposed to have our three boys. I said those times just because they were what popped int my mind. Keep in mind that I only found out he was backing out of regular parenting time (Monday to Tuesday) on Saturday. So this morning two of the three boys asked if they could stay with their Dad until 8pm. I'm fine with that but suggested they ask their dad. He called me and said he would keep them until 8pm as long as I came to pick them up. If I refuse to pick them up he will drop them off at 5pm. (He is court ordered to do all the pick ups and drop offs). Is this yet another control tactic? Is sbx finally losing it? He moved 30 miles away fgrom us if that has anything to do with the issue.