My friend's grandma passed away in March and they are going to be doing her internment on Mother's Day. She has a three year old who asks a lot of questions and my friend has no idea how to explain what they are doing. She is being cremated and tell her the actually true will freak her out. It was easy for them to explain what happened when the grandma passed. They just said that she was in heaven and their dd just said with her dog and that was enough. Grandma was playing with the dog now. But how do you explain cremation and what they will be doing at the internment. My friend would like to leave her dd at home with a babysitter but her dad wants the kids there. Does anyone have a suggestions that I could tell her? What do you say to no scare a little one?