America is so backwards about this issue. In many other places in the world, families live together in one or two room huts- sometimes 12,15, more? people!! So are they perverted for all sleeping together? NO! They're doing what is natural and PRACTICAL. Even though my almost 1yo sleeps in his own room and enjoys his space, he is ALWAYS allowed into our bed- no matter what the reason is. He never was a good "co-sleeper" and tossed a lot. My newborn however is a different story. He LOVES sleeping with Mama and Dada and I have a feeling he's going to be sleeping with us for a lonnnnnnnng time to come.