Two of DD2's stepcousins are coming into town from Connecticut and Alabama. She <i>really</i> wants to go see them. At her dad's house. An hour away. In the rain. She hasn't even been driving a year yet. In our decree it states that if Ex wants the kids he has to come and get them. DD2 doesn't drive on the highway - she'd have to take side roads the whole way there. I said no. Her dad won't come get her because he has to cook. He didn't seem to care that much that she couldn't come, but DD2 is really really upset. I don't want her to drive there. Under any conditions. Am I just being ridiculous?