but I don't know how to fix it. I am 30 weeks pregnant and we have an almost 3 year old son. I honestly feel like my world revolves around mothering and that my husband (and job, but that's another thread!) are taking a backseat. I have absolutely no libido and haven't since being pregnant with DS. I do try to be intimate at least once a week, though admitedly it hasn't been happening that ofter lately. I do enjoy myself when we are intimate, but have absolutely no drive. I also find myself increasingly irritated with DH, and he feels like no matter what he does, I find something else to be bothered by. I have been annoyed for awhile that the domestic duties almost all fall to me, and I do feel that I have a right to feel that way. The problem is that if I tell him that is what I am upset about and he starts to pitch in, I then find something else to be annoyed with. If I remove myself and think about it, he is totally right. I know that my hormones and lack of sleep are contributing to this, but I don't think that is all. What can I do to get the "loving feelings" back? I LOVE my family, DH included, but I am not being the partner he (or I) want. Any advice?