My baby would stay latched on all night, on top of me, if I let him - at 13 months and 24 pounds, ooof! But I can tell that his nursing gets to be comfort nursing at some point, that little fluttery suck where he's not swallowing. He would happily sleep on top of me with my nipple in his mouth all night. So when he's deep asleep and doing that, I do the Pantley pull off trick (from the No Cry Sleep Solution) where I delatch him and then gently hold his chin up to keep his mouth shut, and he will usually stay asleep after that. He does spend a couple hours in the morning snuggling and snacking, but I don't mind being half-awake in the morning nearly as much as I do in the dead of night.
You're probably dead tired when they do this, but can you observe them for a few nights and see whether they're actually nursing or whether they're comfort sucking? I don't mean to dis comfort sucking and its importance, but when it interferes with your sleep, it's a problem.
I would try weaning them from the habit of sleeping latched on to see if you can gently get them used to sleeping without the breast. Personally, I would be inclined not to take fenugreek to up your supply if it's a comfort/behavioral thing rather than a hunger thing for them.
You're probably dead tired when they do this, but can you observe them for a few nights and see whether they're actually nursing or whether they're comfort sucking? I don't mean to dis comfort sucking and its importance, but when it interferes with your sleep, it's a problem.
I would try weaning them from the habit of sleeping latched on to see if you can gently get them used to sleeping without the breast. Personally, I would be inclined not to take fenugreek to up your supply if it's a comfort/behavioral thing rather than a hunger thing for them.