lol Nic. You know what else, I gained 35 lbs with my first baby, exactly the same as my 2nd & 3rd, but it just disappeared instantly after my 1st! And I've heard that from many moms, that the weight after their 1st goes away quickly. That did NOT happen after my next babies!! At ALL!
Soooo, maybe just maybe you'll have that 1st time mama luck, too & not even have to pay your weight attention & it will be long gone by a couple months post partum.
You should save this thread so that in 6 mos time you can read it again as you are sitting there with a baby head in your bladder, a knee in your lung, no stomach to speak of, you haven't seen below your gigantic belly to shave or anything else in months, you get stuck in chairs, you feel as if there is 85,000 pounds hanging off the front of you, and you can't reach your own shoes.