I am going mad here- My DD almost 6 months old has started reaching for food when I am eating and even though I think it is more that she just wants whatever I have like the phone or a toy- I feel bad telling her no everytime I eat. I try to give her a toy but that doenst work. I gave her a cracker- but it was packed full of crap and I feel so bad- I didnt want to strat giving her anything until she was almost a year- should I stand firm and not give her anything or is there something healthy I can give her and not feel so bad. I love to BF and want to keep that as the number 1 food for her. I really dont want to start solids but I always said I would let her lead. I heard at my LL meeting that wheat is bad for a baby- is there any stories I can read on this? And what is a good soft first food? Should I start? STRESS!!!!