Last month our family became a certified foster home. We stated during our home study that we wanted a little girl between age 2 and 4. We also told them that we could not handle children with Special Needs as we both work full time and have a biological child with Autism in the house. They brought us two little boys ages 4 and 6. They are beautiful children. We were informed that they had some issues regarding tantrums but nothing beyond that. After having them in our home for less than a week their social worker began telling us all of the therapies that the older child needed because his behavior was so severe. I told her at that time that we simply could not meet such a demanding schedule for him along with parental visits 4 times a week. I am now at a loss to know what to do. In less than a week I have caught the older child strangling the younger one, He has threatened to bash my head in with a hammer, He said he was going to cut my husband and yesterday he attacked me while I was driving forcing me to pull over and while attempting to calm him he managed to kick me in the face. He is on the verge of being kicked out of school because he received 3 referrals in 3 days for assaulting other students and a teacher. I have been in constant contact with our social worker and have documented everything but it seems when we attempt to contact their social worker she is no where to be found. WE are concerned for the safety of the youngest child and feel that the older one would be be able to have his needs met if placed alone in a home where someone could give him their full attention. We offered to keep the younger one but were informed we would only be allowed to keep him if we took his youngest siblings who are in another home and going quite well. We declined since we do not have room for 3 or the time to care for so many little ones However, last we heard their social worker is looking to place all 4 in one home