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I don't come here often, and I'm sorry for that.<br><br>
Five years ago today, my son died during delivery.<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle"> Misha.
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"><br><br>
So sorry Misha.<br>
Do something special today.<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"><br>
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Thank you Amy.<br><br>
Misha was my son's name, by the way, it looks like that might have been misread.<br><br>
Yeah, I will try to take a bit of time with my partner tonight after our daughter goes to sleep.
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle">: Misha...<br><br>
Remembering you today on the day of your precious son's birth.
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> I`m thinking about you and your precious Misha today too.
 

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i just wanted to say that i'm thinking of your family and little misha.<br><br>
there is another baby's gravestone at the cemetery where our daughter coral is buried, and i noticed the other day new flowers placed beside it. it was the little girl's birthday, and she was born and died 15 years ago that day. it made me think of her parents, knowing she would have been a teenager, and i really wondered how they coped with their loss all of these years. it's only been a half a year for us... coral was just a sweet little infant when she died. and not too much time has passed, so my mental image of her is still somewhat in synch with 'our' time... but i know that soon, after two, three, five, ten years, all of my images of her and her life will continue to be based on her as my infant daughter, yet in 'my' time in the future, she would have been a different age. i have been wondering about this.<br><br>
do you think of misha as an infant? do you imagine him as a five year old? i hope this isn't an upsetting question, i just don't know anyone who can answer these questions, to give their perspective and experiences, of what may lie ahead for me on this road of grieving coral's loss in our lives.<br><br>
i wish you much peace today.<br>
love, coralsmom
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle"> Misha <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/ribbonpb.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="pregnancy and infant loss, SIDS, male breast cancer, genital integrity">:
 

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Thinking of you <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"><br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle"> Misha <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle"><br><br>
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Sometimes I don't know how to think of Misha...I never got to look into his eyes...so it's weird.<br><br>
I'm also a one kid person, so I think about how much love and light my duaghter has brought to my life, and how she would not have been born had Misha lived, and yeah, i just don't know what to think.<br><br>
but, today I am thinking of Misha, even if I don't always know what to think. ANd thinking of those of you who are feeling a fresher, mor raw grief, and hoping that you all will find the strength to come through...
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle"> Misha<br><br>
Five years. It's been 5 months for me and sometimes I don't know how I'm going to get through the next day.<br><br>
Thankyou Sadie, for giving me hope and sharing your strenght and your precious son with us.<br><br>
Happy 5th birthday Misha, wherever you are, you are very missed and loved.
 

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wow. five years.<br><br>
Misha <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle">
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle"> remembering Misha<br>
and <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> for mama
 

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(((sadie and Misha)))<br><br>
Love and peace coming your way...
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle"> Misha <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle">
 

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Gentle (((hugs))) to you on this day. You're in my thoughts and prayers. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">s<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle"> Misha <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle">
 

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Thinking of your precious Misha today. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">
 

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