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Ok, last time I had a baby and flew (almost 3yrs ago) I didn't think twice about nurisng on the flights or anything and never got any hassle for it. Fast forward to now and me reading the posts here of moms being hassled on flights etc and while I'm not worried per se I would like to be prepared. We're flying in just over a week from CA to WI w/a layover in Denver. I just called the airline to ask what their corporate policy was on bfing on flights and the customer service rep said that they didn't have one so she couldn't e-mail me anything in writing in case I get hassled. We're flying Frontier. I'm not even sure I'll actually nurse on the flight since Alex will pretty much only nurse lying down but like I said, I wanted to be prepared just in case. Though God help the idiot who tries to tell me I cant....like that's going to work. I mainly wanted something in writing to show that he/she had no clue what corporate policy was but that since that apparently doesn't exist I'm not sure what to do. I know CA and CO have laws protecting NIP but WI's only stipulates that it doesn't qualify as indecent exposure as far as I know. Does anyone have any idea on what kind of footing I can use in case I do get hassled? I plan on having copies of the CA and CO law and maybe the WI one too.
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i have flown with all the major carriers. From san diego to tucson to detroit to chicago and never ONCE has anyone said anything to or about me. Most times the steward(ess) will ask, are you going to nurse or give her something during takeoff? And thats about all. Also, it might help to find out where the airline you are flying with's corporate office is and print up that law.
They're in CO, hence the layover in Denver which is their hub. I flew United last time and never had a problem. I'm not too worried about it, I'm more worried about the pain in the hiney getting through security might be but figured this is one thing I have more control over.
I've flown Frontier before and last time I actually had a flight attendant that nursed her babies and said how great it was I was nursing. My thought is since they don't have a policy on it they can't say anything to you about it. Their stance is officially nutral, so their employees have to stay nutral as well.

Just mind your own business and they probably will too!
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I have no experience with Frontier - however I flew about 30,000 miles with my son up to age 18-months and never ever had a problem nursing on the plane, in the airport, etc. After that age I did tend to step into the bathroom with him because it was sort of cramped in the seat and due to his age I was less comfortable with NIP.
For every mama that has posted a story of getting harrassed on here there are most likely at least 10 of us who have flown without incident. I have flown quite a few times with J and always nursed him, most recently when he was 22 months old. Try not to worry too much.
Flown (America West/United) at 4 wks, 6 wks, 6 mos and 7 mos, and no problems--staff were very accomodating and respectful in fact.
I fly all the time with dd and never have had a problem. I always wear my Glamourmom nursing tanks though, that helps because dd will not tolerate a blanket and they do the job. Don't worry about it, in my experience the flight attendants have never seemed to have thought twice about it and as far as I can tell, the other passengers can't even tell I am nursing- including the people I sit next to.
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I fly all the time with dd and never have had a problem. I always wear my Glamourmom nursing tanks though, that helps because dd will not tolerate a blanket and they do the job. Don't worry about it, in my experience the flight attendants have never seemed to have thought twice about it and as far as I can tell, the other passengers can't even tell I am nursing- including the people I sit next to.
Oh, ha ha, I did have a problem with that once! I was wearing my GM nursing tank on a flight, and although it's the largest size it's a bit small for me, at least on my right side.
I was walking off the plane with DD in the Kozy, my diaper bag and carryon bag on my right shoulder, and this other passenger woman comes rushing up to me and is like, "Oh, let me help you here" and starts fussing with my clothes and suggesting that I put on a sweater and I realized that the bag and the kozy were sort of conspiring to drag the tank down and a significant part of my right breast was creeping out the top side of the tank! The whole thing was threatening to break free at any moment! It was not so elegant!
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I have flown countless times and nursed..never had an issue.

In a couple weeks I'm flying alone and up until yesterday I was planning on pumping but it looks like I will have to find another time to pump which thankfully my dd is 19.5 months old so I don't have to pump as much.
I've flown with Frontier, America West, United, Southwest & Delta. The breastfeeding "issue" has never been an issue. We have received numerous compliments on how well the kids do, how great the baby is (to which I say "Thanks! He just nursed for most of the flight!"). Don't sweat it.
The way I see it, I'll be flying from Hawaii to the mainland, so at least 8 hours. I can't very well NOT nurse my baby on that flight, now can I?
Generally I wouldn't think twice about it. But with the way my luck's been lately (read crummy) I got a bit concerned today. I flew with older son and nursed on the planes w/no problems and I'm not really expecting a problem this time around (And quite honestly if there was, they'd end up being the ones with the problem once dh and I got through with them
). My reasoning was to try and be prepared and probably not need it than not be prepared and be kicking myself. Like you all said, I'm pretty positive that everything will be fine, assuming pee wee wants to nurse at all. See, he pretty much only nurses lying down so thisis all probably a moot point anyway. Good thing it's 2 flights that are an hour and a half each. Thanks so much everyone!!!
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The last time I flew was last May, and dd was 20 mos at the time. We just nursed and everyone was fine. The time before that I was flying out to SD (moving- Sept 04) and omg- people were so incredibly helpful. The flight attendants made her a "rattle" out of cups and snack mix, kept asking me if I needed anything, and I had other passengers helping me with all my carry-on luggage (had to have a lot from left over stuff). The only bad thing was with one way tickets and me carrying dd in a carrier I did get the "deluxe" security routine. Luckily dd was a champ and didn't get TOO peeved about me having to put her down in security, and the TSA lady was VERY nice and understanding, even allowing me to hold dd for most of the search. Yes, nursing was a bit crowded both times, but I was very matter of fact with the people I sat with and had no problems.

Just one thing- if your dc won't be nursing during takeoff/landing make sure you have something handy for them to suck on so their ears don't get messed up. I'm sure you already know that.. but jic you don't.
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Well, its been about 3 years since I last flew with a nursing baby. Still post-9/11, so I had to take my son out of my sling to get through security as well as take the sling off to put it through the x-ray machine. Thankfully my husband was with to help with holding and rearranging baby and gear.

Once on the plane, I nursed my son during takeoff to protect his little ears.

Just a question, are you bringing a car seat on the plane for the baby, or are you keeping him in your lap? One thing I did make sure of was to have my son in a Baby B'Air during the flight. We couldn't afford to pay for a seat, and slings aren't airline-approved for keeping your infants in your lap. However, the Baby B'Air is approved for use during the flight (still not approved during takeoff/landing). I didn't want to risk a flight attendant giving me a hard time for keeping my baby in a sling on the plane, especially since we were flying to Canada. So I just had my son in the Baby B'Air and covered up with the sling when I nursed. Worked like a charm, he slept almost the entire trip.
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That breastmilk is the best thing for them, that it's most potent straight from the breast, that bottled anything causes a hassel at the security check, that babies have a right to eat, that babies do not eat when it's convenient and are not old enough to skip a meal to please others, that you have the right to BF in every state and being that you're flying over America the right should still apply, and that it's better for you to nurse discreetly than let the baby disturb everyone by crying the entire time.
I flew for 9 seperate trips, each with a connection, so 36 seperate flights. I never once had anyone hassle me or do anything other than smile or offer me a pillow.
I've flown Frontier with dd and we never had any problems. I've also flown Delta, Continental, Northwest(?) and never had any problems. I'm flying AA (scary!) on Thursday, and hope it will go as smoothly. Frankly, the only airline I have heard anyone having issue with was United, and that was because the wouldn't let them nurse during take off and landing.
I am going to be flying in a week from Fl to KY on a Delta connection. I definetly plan to nurse dd on take off and landing. She has never flow before and I want to make sure her ears don't hurt. If she won't nurse I'll give a pacifier, I guess? I am a little worried about a flight att. saying that she has to be sitting striaght up in my lap during take off and landing? I guess I shouldn't be worried. I am bringing the that License to Breastfeed card along w/ me just in case(you know the one you can print off I think at baby talk?)

ETA I went to the delta site to see if they stated a policy and found this:

Air travel can be painful to kids' ears. To counteract ear pain:
Offer a bottle, pacifier or lollipop to encourage swallowing.


http://www.delta.com/traveling_check...ring/index.jsp

Nothing about nursing/breastfeeding.....how surprising-NOT

Anyhow, I'm sure there won't be a problem
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Originally Posted by ndakkitten
Well, its been about 3 years since I last flew with a nursing baby. Still post-9/11, so I had to take my son out of my sling to get through security as well as take the sling off to put it through the x-ray machine. Thankfully my husband was with to help with holding and rearranging baby and gear.

Once on the plane, I nursed my son during takeoff to protect his little ears.

Just a question, are you bringing a car seat on the plane for the baby, or are you keeping him in your lap? One thing I did make sure of was to have my son in a Baby B'Air during the flight. We couldn't afford to pay for a seat, and slings aren't airline-approved for keeping your infants in your lap. However, the Baby B'Air is approved for use during the flight (still not approved during takeoff/landing). I didn't want to risk a flight attendant giving me a hard time for keeping my baby in a sling on the plane, especially since we were flying to Canada. So I just had my son in the Baby B'Air and covered up with the sling when I nursed. Worked like a charm, he slept almost the entire trip.
I'm going to have him parked in the Ergo for the airport running and will probably take him out and hold him once we're on the plane. Unless he needs to sleep, in which case I'll park him back in the Ergo and walk him (yep, little turkey doesn't nurse to sleep either). I've never heard of the Baby B'Air though, I'll have to look that up.
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