I do home daycare and I have a situation I need some perspective on.... I take care of 5 two yr olds plus my ds. One of the girls is very very fair skinned and has red hair. will NOT tan, only freckles and burns super super easily. My yard is very shaded in the morning AND afternoon so I dont put sunscreen on the kids. Her mom asked me to put sunscreen on her and I told her I would but I forget sometimes when we are in a hurry to go outside because I dont put it on anyone else. And, she didnt bring me any, she wanted me to use mine (because we DO put it on for water days) Is it unreasonable of me to ask her to put it on her dd before she drops her off in the morning? She gets dropped of around 8 and we go outside at 9:30, so I think she would be protected. Or is it up to me to make sure it gets on her because she is my resposibility all day?
I don't know whether or not it would be unreasonable for her to put it on in the morning, but most sunscreen needs to be reapplied every hour or two. However, I do feel it's unreasonable for her to expect you to provide it every day.
when dd first started going outside a lot at daycare, we just brought some and asked dcp if she could apply it when the kids were outside. So I think it's not unreasonable for her to ask, but she should provide it.
I don't think it's unreasonable for her to ask. I do think she should be supplying you with the sunscreen, though. I don't think her putting it on early in the morning would be enough for protection later on -- you'd still need to reapply it.
The daycare my dd went to when she was little required the parents sign a waiver saying it was okay to put sunscreen on the kids, and they provided it, unless you had a specific kind you wanted used on your kid. They applied it before morning and afternoon outside time.
I don't think it's unreasonable to ask, and I'm kind of surprised you don't put it on all of the kids because it's not only about skin tone, it's about protecting them from skin damage. I do think it's reasonable for you to either ask your parents to provide it or to slightly increase your daycare costs to cover the cost of sunscreen for all the children.
Our daycare center asks US to put it on before we come in the morning, and then they reapply in the afternoon. It needs a good 30 minutes before it's fully effective - tell the parents that.
They also ask us for donations to help defray the cost of sunscreen (they're an on-campus center, that offers student discounts and so they don't have a lot of extra money). If your rates are low, I'd ask each parent to bring a bottle of sunscreen for the summer so you can reapply after lunch. More often if you're out in direct sun or they're playing in water.
ALL of the children in your care should be getting sunscreen. Make it part of your going morning and afternoon routine. For our kids, afternoon consists of lunch, nap/rest time, pottying, sunscreen application (whether or not they are going outside), play time (inside or out).
My daycare provider will give my son any sort of elixir or treatment I provide as long as I give specific intructions of when to give it. Each morning I fill in a sheet with everything on it and at the front desk there is also a log I have to put prescriptions on. They check off on the sheet in the room when they give something to him so if I write - face cream every 2 hours they write down when they've give it. I get a sheet for the entire day of diaper changes, feeds, sleeps, and anything else I would need to know.
However, if I don't bring whatever cream or medicine they don't use their own or borrow from another child.
They can get burned even in the shade. If the mom wants you to put sunscreen on, then you ought to. But, for a small home daycare, I wouldn't expect you to provide the sunscreen. Just ask the mom for a bottle to leave with you. If it's that important to her, she'll have no problem with that.
I would expect you to put sunscreen or whatever on my child if i asked you too.
That said as a daycare provider I require parents provide all lotions and potions. I don't think it would be out of line to ask her to provie a certain type to make it easier on you (the spray on, no rubbing in kind is amazing! and then a stick type for her face. you can apply it all in under 60 seconds. ) and I also think it is reasonable to ask her to put it on before she comes since you guys go right outside to play. It is supposed to be on for 30 minutes before you go outside anyway. that is perfect timing.
Originally Posted by maliceinwonderland
The daycare my dd went to when she was little required the parents sign a waiver saying it was okay to put sunscreen on the kids, and they provided it, unless you had a specific kind you wanted used on your kid. They applied it before morning and afternoon outside time.
Originally Posted by miss_sonja
They can get burned even in the shade. If the mom wants you to put sunscreen on, then you ought to. But, for a small home daycare, I wouldn't expect you to provide the sunscreen. Just ask the mom for a bottle to leave with you. If it's that important to her, she'll have no problem with that.
Originally Posted by LynnS6
Our daycare center asks US to put it on before we come in the morning, and then they reapply in the afternoon. It needs a good 30 minutes before it's fully effective - tell the parents that.
That's the way our daycare does it, too. & we provide our own sunscreen. (they do have a center stash that they'll use if a child doesn't have any, they won't just let the poor kid burn)
I also had to sign a waiver for any "medication/treatment/etc" including diaper cream, sunscreen, etc. Anything they put on the kids has to be OK'd by the parents, which is fine because I didn't want them using Desitin on my CD's, so it reminded me to bring my own stuff from home.
I think the reason for Parent application is that kids arrive at different times in the morning, yk? For example, DS and I get there at about 9:30 and, often, the kids are already outside at that point.
Have her Provide you with sunscreen. Tell her to put it on in the morning before she drops her off, and then you can reapply according to the directions throughout the day. I think that some types last longer than others so maybe the mom could look for one that only needs to be done every 3 hours or something.
My son is in daycare 2 days a week. We provide sunscreen and they put it on 30 minutes before they go outside. I would expect to provide the sunscreen and I would expect his care providers to make a point to remember it. Honestly, I think you should probably ask all of the parents what they want, and if they want sunscreen, make it a part of the routine for all the kids whose parents OK it. We sign a consent form to have them put it on.
Originally Posted by LynnS6
Our daycare center asks US to put it on before we come in the morning, and then they reapply in the afternoon. It needs a good 30 minutes before it's fully effective - tell the parents that.
That's exactly how my daughter's nursery school/daycare works. They use school-provided sunscreen in the afternoon - I had to sign a consent. Since all the kids get sunscreen before going outside in the afternoon, it wouldn't make sense to have the teachers juggling a different parent-provided bottle for everybody. But it wouldn't bother me to be asked to provide a bottle of sunscreen for my child, or for the school to suggest that parents take turns providing a bottle for the class to share.
I would go through the roof if I found out my child's childcare provider sometimes forgot to put sunscreen on her and didn't think it was that big a deal. Even one sunburn in early childhood greatly increases the risk of skin cancer, and my daughter is extremely fair-skinned.
Originally Posted by LiamnEmma
I don't think it's unreasonable to ask, and I'm kind of surprised you don't put it on all of the kids because it's not only about skin tone, it's about protecting them from skin damage. I do think it's reasonable for you to either ask your parents to provide it or to slightly increase your daycare costs to cover the cost of sunscreen for all the children.
Considering that her yard is shaded, I don't think it is all that strange to not apply sunscreen to her kids.
I spent 8 weeks every summer growing up at my parents' country house. It was surrounded by trees. My sister and I would spend all day outside and never got the slightest appearance of having been exposed to the sun. Trees are beautiful things!
Originally Posted by miss_sonja
They can get burned even in the shade. If the mom wants you to put sunscreen on, then you ought to. But, for a small home daycare, I wouldn't expect you to provide the sunscreen. Just ask the mom for a bottle to leave with you. If it's that important to her, she'll have no problem with that.
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Could you just add it to your routine to get the kids into sunscreen...all of them? At two, you could even show them how to rub it in, make it fun.
As a provider, I put it on several times a day. We get wet alot, and the weather here lately is 100+. You definitely need to protect those kiddos...this mama is placing her baby in your hands. I think it's worth it to always be careful with skin.
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