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I have been married for 8 years and my husband and I have been sexual active for about 7 of them. For a year now he has been avoiding me? Just last week I found a medication called Levitra in his car, did not know what it was at first but did a quick search and new exactly what it was. I do recall him having some trouble in the past but nothing we could not handle. I have caught him masturbating a few times in the middle of the night so I ask myself if he only gets erectile dysfunction with me? He seems to be ok when he masturbates?

Does anyone have any experience with this issue? Or have you heard of Levitra, does your husband take any sort of ED meds?

Thanks in advance for your help..
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I have been married for 8 years and my husband and I have been sexual active for about 7 of them. For a year now he has been avoiding me? Just last week I found a medication called Levitra in his car, did not know what it was at first but did a quick search and new exactly what it was. I do recall him having some trouble in the past but nothing we could not handle. I have caught him masturbating a few times in the middle of the night so I ask myself if he only gets erectile dysfunction with me? He seems to be ok when he masturbates?

Does anyone have any experience with this issue? Or have you heard of Levitra, does your husband take any sort of ED meds?

Thanks in advance for your help..
Mahalo
Oh, mama, how frustrating! My DH doesn't seem to want much either, especially since we've had LO but even before that. Have you two talked much about him not wanting it? He married you and loves you - I would guess that there is something else going on like he is afraid of not performing. With masturbating there is no pressure - just relief!

I would talk to him about it and not mention the meds. Just ask him if he can explain why he isn't interested.

FWIW, I have not been terribly interested either, but when I am I get rebuffed most of the time.
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That's an RX med. Was it in a bottle with his name on it? If not then he must have gotten it from a friend or something.

I'd definitely have an open and frank talk. Perhaps he is embarrassed about ED, or maybe he's got some sort of sexual addiction.
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If it's in his car, he may just be taking it while he's visiting someone else. I think a big talk is in order.
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That's an RX med. Was it in a bottle with his name on it? If not then he must have gotten it from a friend or something.

I'd definitely have an open and frank talk. Perhaps he is embarrassed about ED, or maybe he's got some sort of sexual addiction.

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If it's in his car, he may just be taking it while he's visiting someone else. I think a big talk is in order.

This, exactly to both of these. honestly hon, if the pills are his he's lying to you about at least one thing, and that's having been to see his PCP without your knowledge/presence. If he's keeping them at easy access in his car without your knowledge and you're not 'reaping the benefits' as it were, that's a ginormous red flag at best...

hugs for you and prayers for the best as you gear up to discuss your findings with him and make your next decisions
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How everyone, sorry for the late response, I did not have access to my pc for a few days. I hate to say most of you are right and I am scared he is using them on someone else if he has them in the car? I consider 2 options:

a) He has them in the car to hide them from me because he does not want me to know about his ED problem.
b) He has them in the car to perform for someone else


I really hope it is not option b) because it would be devastating. I did allot of research and there are a few good site that provide some insight on Levitra and why some men use it:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vardenafil
http://www.edguider.com
http://www.drugs.com/levitra.html

On one of the sites they have a good forum and I am going to join and ask a few men why they would keep meds like Levitra in the car. It would be good to hear a mans point of view.

Thanks for the support everyone and I will keep you updated.
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Good luck!
I hope this will spark a good, much-needed conversation between you and dh that will lead you to a new place.
Do keep us posted - we're rootin; for ya!

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