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Sole. Custody. By. Default. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/joy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="joy"><br><br>
STBX never showed up in court, so I obtained an interim judgment by default regarding custody for DD. He still gets the visitation he currently have, which is Sundays from 12 to 3:30, but if he wants anything else, he has to petition the court for it. I also have the ability to make all the decisions regarding DD's school and medical care without his consent, and if I want to travel, I do not require his permission to do so.<br><br>
Because we proceeded by default, the appeal delay for my divorce will be sooner. By May 31st, he'll have lost the ability to apppeal the divorce (though I don't think he cares either way). I'll obtain the final judgment by the end of August, right in time for my birthday.<br><br>
Regarding CS, I either have to snoop around myself to see if STBX is still working at the same job, and if not, I have to hire a firm to figure out where he does work right now (I have his SIN). From there, my lawyer will subpoena his employer and CS will be deducted at the source.<br><br>
*phew* it was such a stressful day!
 

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That is amazing congrats!!!!!
 

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Wow! Congratulations!!
 

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Two words: woo-hoo!<br>
(Or maybe that's one word? I dunno.) Anyway, congratulations.
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/joy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="joy"> Great! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/thumb.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="thumbs up">
 

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wow you DID IT!!!!!<br><br>
its kinda so sad though he didnt show up.<br><br>
woohoo on freedom to travel WHEREEVER you want to.
 

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Nice. That must be such a relief. Enjoy your freedom.<br><br>
I wonder how he will be next time there is a visit. If I were you, I would not even mention the custody thing or the not showing up thing. Good thing you weren't at the courthouse yesterday for all that movie-like action...
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/joy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="joy"> congratulations! that's wonderful news! i hope the rest of it goes as smoothly for you.
 

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Wahoo!!!!! Congrats!!!!
 
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