I have a friend who has been married 8 months and her partner only really wants to "get it on" maybe twice a month. She's having a hard time with feeling like it's because of her (I'm sure it's not). He works long hours and I'm sure that's part of it. Anyway, I told her I didn't think twice a month was totally abnormal, but maybe a bit on the low side for a couple with no kids and married less than a year. I also told her I could post a poll if she wanted since she didn't believe me. I know it was much more often than that for myself and dh. So, is that normal?