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My friend wrote this to me and needs some help...I'm not sure what to tell her so I thought I'd turn to my MDC friends who are so knowledgable in these things!

Here is her story:

Hi Bobbi, I was hoping you might be able to help me with this! I am tired of the doctors not finding any reason for the menstural problems I have and they are talking about a possible hysterectomy at some point soon to resolve them. We want another child so of course that is not what I want to do and over the years it seems like they would rather take some drastic measure or throw me on some medicine rather than finding a cause. Long story short I have never had normal periods I would bleed for days, months, weeks at a time. I have been on MANY birth controls that make me bleed even more including depo provera. Seven years ago I stopped getting periods all together and have had to go on Clomid 3 times to get pregnant. I have had one miscarriage, 5 polyps removed, and right now I have an unexplained enlarged uterus. I have had a lot of bleeding the past 6 months (with maybe 30 days or so of no bleeding or spotting) and the past 2 months I have been having a lot of pelvic pain, bloating, and now I am having really heavy bleeding (a pad and tampon every 1 1/2 hours or so and large blood clots). I'm sorry for all the info...I know it is way TMI. LOL. But I thought you might need to know more of my history to help me! If you aren't familiar with them, then that's okay but I thought I would ask you since I know you know quite a bit about these kinds of things :)

Here are some of the herbal/homeopatics she was thinking of trying...and what they help with:

Calcarea carbonica: PMS with fatigue, anxiety, and a feeling of being overwhelmed suggest a need for this remedy. Th

e woman may have problems with water-retention and weight gain, tender breasts, digestive upsets, and headaches. Periods often come too early and last too long, sometimes with a flow of bright red blood. A general feeling of chilliness, with clammy hands and feet, and cravings for sweets and eggs are other indications for Calcarea.
Caulophyllum: This remedy is often helpful to women with a history of irregular periods, difficulty becoming pregnant, or slow childbirth due to weak muscle tone of the uterus. Symptoms include discomfort during periods and a heavy flow of blood or other discharge. Drawing pains may be felt in the pelvic region, thighs, and legs. Stiffness or arthritis, especially in the finger-joints, often is seen when this remedy is needed.
Chamomilla: A woman likely to respond to this remedy is angry, irritable, and hypersensitive to pain. Cramping may come on, or be intensified, because of emotional upset. Flow can be very heavy, and the blood may look dark or clotted. Problems are often worse at night. Heating pads or exposure to wind may aggravate the symptoms, and motion (such as rocking or brisk walking) may help to reduce the tension and discomfort.
Lycopodium: PMS with a craving for sweets and a ravenous appetite (sometimes a bulimic tendency) suggests a need for this remedy. Digestive upsets with abdominal bloating and flatulence are often seen, with the person feeling worst in the late afternoon and evening. Menstrual periods may be delayed, followed by a heavy flow that goes on for extra days. A woman who needs this remedy often wears a worried look and lacks self-confidence-although she may be irritable and bossy to pets and family members. A desire to be alone, but with someone in the other room, is another indication for Lycopodium

Any ideas what this could be before she starts the herbals/homeos?
I'm ANGRY that the (military) hospital is even THINKING of hysterectomy!! I want to help her get healthy, but I"m not very knowledgable...any ideas or suggestions would be appreciated!

Thank you MDC Friends!
 

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More info from her:

They have ran tests for PCOS but they have come back within normal limits...well normal meaning not in the range they would be for PCOS. My insulin levels and thyroid are all normal. I was on the depo shot for one year from 1998 to 1999 but my problems started around probably 1994 or 1995 and within those 4 years or so I was on probably 5 different birth control pills that they tried to regulate my bleeding with. They just put me on birth control again and I took them for about a week but my bleeding got worse so I stopped them.

I'm not sure if the polyps have grown back or not but there is a big chance they would so that is why they will probably be doing another laparoscopy and hysteroscopy to check. They did these on me in November 2004 because I had such heavy bleeding and pain after my miscarriage and they removed them as well as some leftover placental tissue. The bleeding and clots I am having now remind me so much of my miscarriage. That is the only other time the pain and bleeding has been this bad. I am passing large clots almost every time I go to the bathroom.

I talked to the clinic today at 8:40 this morning and the stupid nurse I talked to basically said I was dumb because I am not used to the bleeding that I don't realize it could be this heavy. So I kept telling her this is NOT normal and she finally said she would see if they had any appointments open and she would call me back. Well she called back at 12:30 and said they had an appointment open at 1:00. WTH? As if she didn't know that 4 1/2 hours earlier??? So of course I couldn't go because I just laid Kaitlyn down and Lexi was eating lunch. So of course she acted like it obviously was not as bad as I was telling her and said "okay we will see you on Monday then". Of course she gave me the option to go to the ER but said they probably wouldn't do anything. And I am not going to go there if I absolutely do not have to.

As of Nov 04 I did not have endometriosis but the doctor I am seeing says that doesn't mean I don't have it now and that is another reason they will probably need to do the surgeries again. But if nothing shows up then of course a hysterectomy would be their easy solution to "fix me." Everything I read on the internet said that is the most common thing they do when you have unexplained bleeding as badly as I do. I just can't believe nothing shows up on my tests :-( This is NOT normal. I know that I need to lose a LOT of weight, but I know that is not the cause of this because when all this started I was only 160 lbs which isn't really "overweight" for my height. But just being on the depo for a year I gained 80 lbs!!! And I have never been able to lose it and then each month I am on clomid I gain about 5 lbs and I have been on that for about 11 months total. And this is all weight that never seems to leave.
 

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Your post sounds pretty serious, and I have never known anyone with those types of problems. Hopefully someone might have some more info for you. I would think a good step in going with a more natural solution would be to look into cloth menstural pads. I haven't had anything as severe as her but I can tell you just using cloth has improved my periods dramatically, in bleeding and cramps. Sounds like she needs more in-depth help than cloth alone, maybe someone in health and healing would know more too.
 

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Thanks Mary! I'll suggest it to her...although I think she would need a cloth DIAPER instead of a pad...

She went to the ER this morning....I will be heading over there to check on her on my daily 'rounds' for lactation support in the OB ward!


Here is her most recent email to me...

As bad as it sounds I would love a hysterectomy once we know we are done with kids only because I don't trust the doctors to "fix me" any other way as I have saw MANY doctors over the last 10 years and none of them have found anything wrong. And I am tired of having to deal with this crap. During the 7 years I didn't get a period on my own I would have to take Provera to force a period and that was almost as bad as this! I seriously cannot leave the house when I have my periods because they are sooo heavy. I hate having to put my life on hold and stay in the house because of a PERIOD!

It makes me sad since I don't think we should ever lose an organ unless it is a LAST RESORT!!
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Has she been tested for bleeding disorders? I don't know much about them--I think one is called von Willebrand's disorder or something like that--but I have heard of women having long histories of heavy bleeding, even having babies, without doctors figuring out that was the problem.

Good luck to her and I hope she finds relief--

Beth
DS (6-1/2); DD (3-1/2)
 
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