Dd's surgery to reimplant her ureter will be late next week. I am trying hard to be rational and logistical -- planning for the older children to go to my mom's house, figuring out what to pack. I feel like I should be more relaxed about this whole thing, but I am really stressing. I organized all dd's paperwork and realized that, in six years, she has been hospitalized more than 30 times and this will be her 10th surgery. So, so very not fair.