Well, brief summary- up until last fall, H was a good husband/dad. Not great but okay. In October he dropped the D-bomb. I was shocked and obviously crushed! After a month of me trying to be the perfect wife to win him back, he revealed to me that he was a sex addict and had cheated on me 18 times. When I said, "Forget it, I'm through!", he lost it. We had several domestics (NEVER physical thank God!) and the cops definitely know my house! He's been in his own apartment since December and even had a gf from about January-June. (I had dated someone for a few mos as well.) Divorce seemed eminent. We have a divorce agreement 90% hammered out. All this time I've begged him to go into therapy- for our marriage, for the kids, for himself. He never would. Finally, today he did an intake at a local program that does partial in-patient programs. He's going to end up going 3 or 5 days/wk. It's gotten to the point that I think he finally agrees that something is seriously wrong with him and his actions have gone beyond his control. I just pray to God this helps. I want to stay married. I want to overcome this horrific year!