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Okay so minor vent and questions.<br>
Today ds started preschool I cried.<br>
I am majorly in the hole and nothing to tap into except my retirement fund.<br>
Am going to ask dad for some short term loan but he's overseas, my mom is also out of the country but my stepmom is cool and she should be helpful.<br><br>
But I just resent it all.<br>
I have no real 'safety net' My friends grandma's funeral was today I got 35 bucks in my account (that the kids hid my bankcard somewhere in the house) I can't go to it obviously it wasn't enough for bus fare never mind renting a car without a credit card (before they wanted $500 down as a deposit)<br><br>
I hate having to ask my dad but cashing in my retirement savings (a whopping 600 bucks after taxes probably 400) is a stupid idea... I can't even get overdraft I have no job...<br><br>
I am tired.<br>
I am spent.<br>
I just need someone to bring dinner over and put the kids to bed.<br><br>
My inlaws who couldn't see the kids until June (as they had to file their taxes BS) so they couldn't drive up until JUNE I find out came up and spent entire weekend with dh....and dh didnt' ask to see the kids. He's seen them 3 times in six weeks and the bastard was making motions about asking for 'more custody' but I have not said no once and he's only wanted to see them 3 freakin times? For about 10 hours total..their son is arrested for beating his wife with the kids at home and they haven't seen the boys since August. Now I find out she lies to me, is a couple blocks away and has no interest in her grandsons.... called once to tell me what great parents they were just after dh was arrested......sigh..and hasn't bothered asking if we have groceries...<br><br>
dh wanted to cut them off before he got arrested can I limit, control the visitation they have with my kids?<br><br>
My son just informed my me other son just got ahold of a permanent marker and I am too tired to care what the mess looks like now. My husband left me with all the bills the child support/spousal is adequate if I wasn't having to pay 2 months worth of the bills he didn't pay before he left.<br><br>
Sigh...<br>
and its starting to rain....<br>
oh well here's praying my dad can give me a small loan..
Today ds started preschool I cried.<br>
I am majorly in the hole and nothing to tap into except my retirement fund.<br>
Am going to ask dad for some short term loan but he's overseas, my mom is also out of the country but my stepmom is cool and she should be helpful.<br><br>
But I just resent it all.<br>
I have no real 'safety net' My friends grandma's funeral was today I got 35 bucks in my account (that the kids hid my bankcard somewhere in the house) I can't go to it obviously it wasn't enough for bus fare never mind renting a car without a credit card (before they wanted $500 down as a deposit)<br><br>
I hate having to ask my dad but cashing in my retirement savings (a whopping 600 bucks after taxes probably 400) is a stupid idea... I can't even get overdraft I have no job...<br><br>
I am tired.<br>
I am spent.<br>
I just need someone to bring dinner over and put the kids to bed.<br><br>
My inlaws who couldn't see the kids until June (as they had to file their taxes BS) so they couldn't drive up until JUNE I find out came up and spent entire weekend with dh....and dh didnt' ask to see the kids. He's seen them 3 times in six weeks and the bastard was making motions about asking for 'more custody' but I have not said no once and he's only wanted to see them 3 freakin times? For about 10 hours total..their son is arrested for beating his wife with the kids at home and they haven't seen the boys since August. Now I find out she lies to me, is a couple blocks away and has no interest in her grandsons.... called once to tell me what great parents they were just after dh was arrested......sigh..and hasn't bothered asking if we have groceries...<br><br>
dh wanted to cut them off before he got arrested can I limit, control the visitation they have with my kids?<br><br>
My son just informed my me other son just got ahold of a permanent marker and I am too tired to care what the mess looks like now. My husband left me with all the bills the child support/spousal is adequate if I wasn't having to pay 2 months worth of the bills he didn't pay before he left.<br><br>
Sigh...<br>
and its starting to rain....<br>
oh well here's praying my dad can give me a small loan..