I am experiencing some difficulties with my 3 year old dd. Everytime we need to come inside from the car or from playing out in the yard, she refuses to come in. I will ask her several times and wait; but she either runs away or continues playing. I will say, "lets go in and get some milk" ;(i know no the best way) but that doesn't work either. I try to make a game of it sometimes, I tell her how frustrated I am, nothing works. The whole time I am holding the dd2 who is a year, trying to get her inside too as she squirms around. So I usually end up getting really mad and grabbing dd's hand and pulling her inside. I really don't want to do this because it is rough and makes both of us upset. But sometimes we have to go inside and start dinner or use the potty or whatever. She gets lots of outdoor time and free play time. It just seems to be her defiant "thing". Any suggestions here?