Gifts for Teenage Nursing Mother

haha you are soo right about the teenagers not thinking about certian things...
I had my son when i was 17, and i can tell you ... all my friends bought me was CLOTHING.
Thank god my mother invited tons of her friends to the shower or i wouldn't have received anything i actually needed.

I had a HUGE issue with breast pads.. they would stick to my nipples and rip skin off when i tried to remove them...

I would reccomend getting the ones that are made like diapers ( turn gel like when wet on the inside ) so they don't stick to her nipples... *shutters*

Also i know this is off topic of breastfeeding.. but often the focus of baby showers is buying stuff for the baby, and the mother is left with nothing.

Perhaps a gift card to a clothing store so she can buy herself something that fits for when she goes back to school.. i would be shocked if anyone else would think of getting her that.

I was a 17 year old teen mother who had to pump at school. :

A few things (not items) that helped me ALOT were:
-My son's ped. wrote a note excusing me from 12 weeks of school because I was exclusively breastfeeding my son. I kept up with all school work thanks to a tutor.
-The school nurse let me pump in the nurse's office. This was amazing because a friend of mine had been pumping in the bathroom the year before (yuck!)
-Schedule pumping time: speak to (female) teachers ahead of time so I could leave one class 5 min early and go to the next 5 min late, so I could pump for 15 minutes.

Although she is 16, she may need your support alot. Her friends are all telling her "Nothing will change! I'll babysit! I'll be fine hanging out with you and the baby!" And then the baby will come, and they will not. My best friends right after DS was born were other teen moms and older moms with young children, who were my friends not parent figures. The person I clashed heads with most was my own mother. There's nothing like two mothers in one house.

I also second the boppy pillow, sling, and a trip to a maternity store to buy her clothes she likes and also to get her out of the house.

Congrats to her! I graduated HS, with honors: a nursing, cloth diapering, AP mama! It's wonderful she has the support of both her mother and you!

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I was a 17 yo mother and the thing I needed most was support. My friends were clueless about BF (only 1 had a child). My mom was supportive, but having another person behind you is even better! Support is the best gift you could give.

Oh yes, tell her to take more time off if at all possible! I know it is important to graduate, but if she goes back too soon it may be detrimental.
I was in HS when I had my first too. I actually pumped in class I went back to school at I think 5 weeks postpartum. I was already not very attached to my son and I think that made it worse. They had told me I could stay home longer but I was bored. Even though I went back to school and did 4 years of high school, I didnt have enough credits to graduate at the end of my senior year, so I quit, took the GED test and got my GED, so I could start college. Anywho, that is great that they have a daycare at her school.
The biggest present you could give her is your support and friendship. My step mom was a HUGE help to me, as was my oldest step sister-she is a year younger than me and we were in school together. I definately second the good pump thing too!! I love my PIS and soooo wish I had had one for my first.
Oh yeah, one more thing. I dont know how close you are to her or if maybe you could hire a doula for her, but I would definately have someone knowledgable with her when she delivers. The hospital gave my ds a bottle against my wishes and he had nipple confusion. I had to pump for 3 months before he nursed for the first time. Most teen moms wouldnt have pumped like that. So just let her know-NO BOTTLES!!!