For my "vbac consult" ... basically so he can tell me how we are all going to die and I can nod and he can sign something saying he told me so.<br><br>
Anyway, wish me luck and I'll let you know how it goes.
just be tough! i'm sending out tough-mama vibes so you can just brush off everything he says. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngbiggrin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="orange big grin">
Well I am back. I did a lot of nodding. LOL At first I wanted to strangle him but towards the end I liked him a little more (not that it matters)... One of the dumbest things he said was "when someone tells me they know the risks, that usually means they dont know the risks" ..???? Uhh. OK. Basically his point was that even if the risk is low (though he put it at about 10%<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">: ) if you are that one person then it doesnt matter how low it is. Fair enough, I have certainly thought that too but then doesnt that apply to everything in life? Plane crashes? Terrorist attacks?<br>
Oh and the one vba2c horror story he had to share with me involved a woman who was induced, not once but twice. (first induction failed and they sent her home) I didnt bother pointing that out to him.<br><br>
So whatever. Its over and now I can gestate in peace.